Learning to Look Again Ashlie Collins Learning to Look Again Ashlie Collins

When Did We Stop Wondering?

Wonder isn’t childish. It may be the beginning of wisdom.

When was the last time something made you stop?

Not because it frightened you.

Not because it demanded your attention.

But because it filled you with wonder.

Somewhere along the way, many of us learned that growing up meant becoming certain.

We learned to move quickly through our days, solving problems, answering questions and measuring success by productivity rather than presence. We became remarkably good at explaining the world, but perhaps less practiced at simply standing in awe of it.

Children don’t begin life that way.

They ask impossible numbers of questions. They crouch to watch ants crossing a pavement. They stare at the moon as though they’ve never seen it before. Every leaf, shell, insect and cloud feels like a discovery waiting to happen.

We often smile at their curiosity.

What if we could learn from it instead?

Wonder is not the absence of knowledge.

It is the beginning of it.

Every great scientific discovery started with someone refusing to accept that the world was ordinary.

Every meaningful work of art began with someone seeing beauty where others walked past.

Every spiritual journey begins with the quiet realization that there may be more to reality than we have yet understood.

Wonder has always been an invitation.

Not to stop asking questions.

But to ask better ones.

Perhaps the opposite of wonder is not doubt.

Perhaps it is familiarity.

The moment we believe we have fully understood something, we stop paying attention to it.

The night sky becomes background.

Trees become scenery.

Other people become assumptions.

Even our own lives can become routines we move through without noticing.

Yet the world has not become less remarkable.

The Earth is still carrying us through space at astonishing speed.

Every breath still depends on a chain of events so intricate that science continues to uncover new layers of it’s complexity.

Every person we meet carries a story we cannot see.

Reality has not lost its mystery.

Only our attention.

Perhaps this is why wonder feels so restorative.

It asks almost nothing of us except that we slow down long enough to notice.

To look again.

To exchange certainty for curiosity.

To let creation surprise us once more.

I don’t believe wonder belongs only to scientists.

Or artists.

Or people of faith.

I believe it belongs to all of us.

Because before we are experts…

Before we are professionals…

Before we belong to nations, traditions or disciplines…

We are human beings.

And perhaps one of the most human things we can do is stand beneath the same sky, look up and remember that the universe is far larger, stranger and more beautiful than we often allow ourselves to believe.

Maybe growing wiser doesn’t mean losing our childlike wonder.

Maybe it means learning to return to it…

…with greater humility, deeper gratitude and a fuller appreciation of just how extraordinary life truly is.

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